People who are going through a divorce are often focused on getting the process done as quickly and inexpensively as possible, but that’s not always the way things work. There are some factors that can increase both the amount of time it takes to get the divorce done and the cost of it.
Understanding some of these factors may help you to reduce the cost and the time, but that will depend on whether your ex will cooperate or not.
1: Contentious communication
High-conflict communication can create unnecessary expenses during the divorce process because too much time is spent arguing over trivial matters. Add in a refusal to exchange information and repeated schedule changes, and you have even more of an increase in cost. The cost can go up more if the attorneys have to have more hearings, write more letters or spend more time in other legal processes.
2: Disagreements over property
Disagreements over property division are often one of the most significant factors that drive up costs. You and your ex may not agree with the valuation of the property or how debts will be divided. Incomplete financial information is another common cause of delays in divorces that can increase the overall cost.
3: Disputes about parenting plans
Parenting plans are another part of divorce that can be contentious because you and your ex might not see eye-to-eye on matters related to the children. Trouble making decisions about medical care, schooling, religion and a host of other issues can all draw out the process.
4. Bringing in specialists in particular fields
Sometimes it is necessary to bring in outside help beyond your legal representatives. For example, someone to appraise a specific asset, search for hidden assets or assess the psychological state and needs of a child.
The cost of divorce is a major factor for many people, so it’s critical that anyone in this position does what they can to minimize that cost. Working with someone familiar with these matters is beneficial because they can help with trying to find ways to work through the contentious matters that are at the center of the divorce.


